Remember that every situation is a SO CALLED SITUATION. A so called bad back. A so called dis ease. A so called defect. A so called privilege. A so called lack. A so called fear. A so called blessing.
For you and me…. so called is only one of many probabilities. We have thrown out the book of solid state physics. We make up our reality as we go. We do not have to align with a so called situation. We have learned that for every situation there are a multitude of possible outcomes. That is what quantum dynamics says.
We are entitled to play. As doctor Bartlett says, you only have to be congruent and coherent. Meaning aligned with.