Every time you block the attention of others you close down your heart. Every time you close down your heart you lose a piece of what could have been.
You throw away yourself to obey the rules made to control society.
Does anyone suspect why these rules were created? I am sorry to say we have all been manipulated from the get go.
You can chose to allow attention, to allow love, to allow life to flow in a way that is open and acceptable to yourself.