If your basic harmony is sadness or loneliness or lack, then you harmonize with others with the same frequency. You will attract that which you harmonize with. You will be attracted to that which you harmonize with.
Then it stands to reason if you flip your basic harmony to happiness and compassion that you will attract others with the same harmony.
We know that people get stuck in particular harmonies that become the box of their life for their whole lives. It takes a internal intent to shift personal harmonics. Everyone knows people who have “turned their lives”, for good and for bad. It is possible to change your personal harmony and change what you attract into your life. It is also possible to amplify what you attract into your life.
Hold the consciousness of the intent of your new harmony, such as the harmony of compassion or integrity or abundance.